Saturday, May 19, 2007

My other half is a funny chap. Its one of his main attraction that draws me to him when we met. He looks fierce on the outside(thanks to his moustache) but has an amazing sense of humour & intelligence to boot. He is also very helpful, extremely I should say, often goes out of his way to help others without asking anything in return - sincerely & genuinely. Always making sure that some good will come out of it. Sometimes even his own family takes a backseat if the situation calls for it.But more often then not I find this generous bit of him always bites him back in the end. Like I mentioned before, its not as if he is asking for a commemorative plaque or an award ceremony to remember him by, sometimes a touch of respect and simple courteous gesture goes a long way. He of course would never tell me how he's hurt or affected by the action of others. He don't have to tell me. I can see it. I can feel it. He would keep it to himself. He would never ask why nor question why it happened. But Things DO happen. And I am not happy. Not with him, but the nature of complex human relationships. But he is taking it in his stride - maybe betrayal is too harsh a word, maybe we should think that some things are just not all about US, maybe somethings we do not see or understand why, maybe he even deserves to be treated like that(for whatever reason ALLAH only knows...)But as a woman who watches her man get affected out of the blue is very disturbing. And I feel helpless because it is not within my control to do anything about it. I can only stand by his side. Assuring him...like only a good wife would know how...I hope he gets pass all this emerging stronger than before. Affected?yes...defeated?well, there's no battle to begin with isn't it?

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